My mother seems to think that when I turn 18 in 2 months that she can still give me?
Sunday, February 26th, 2012Its currently about 12 am and currently refuses to lift it at all.
I am responsible and have never broken her trust and she does trust me.
I rarely drink because she only allows me to drink sometimes.
I said I want to get a tatoo that i can hide (like a small one on my hip) and a nose piercing and she said if I get one she is forcing me to get laser removal and she will rip the piercing out.
She also told me she can control everything i do while im still living under her roof.
I love her and dont mean to whinge but I feel i should have more freedom seeing as I am responnsible and will be classed as an adult.
Her treating me this way is making me really consider moving out as soon as I turn 18 because I cant deal with it anymore.
Ive talked to her about it and she wont even listen to anything I try and say she just yells and says Im being immature and need to grow up even when I am speaking respectfully to her
She also keeps saying that i need to prove myself first but I dont know how i can do that when I always obey her rules and she already trusts me
Is there anything I can do to change her mind or shall I just move out like Im considerig
I’d just move out, why stress with all that nonsense. She couldn’t force you to get laser surgery to remove a tattoo lol all you would have to do is refuse and she’d have to physically force you which the clinic wouldn’t let her because at 18 it is 100% your decision.
She could rip the piercing out but im guessing she’s just saying it all to scare you so you won’t do it. She might kick you out because of it if she is that type but who knows. The sooner you move out the sooner you will have your freedom.