Archive for February, 2012

My mother seems to think that when I turn 18 in 2 months that she can still give me?

Sunday, February 26th, 2012

Its currently about 12 am and currently refuses to lift it at all.
I am responsible and have never broken her trust and she does trust me.
I rarely drink because she only allows me to drink sometimes.
I said I want to get a tatoo that i can hide (like a small one on my hip) and a nose piercing and she said if I get one she is forcing me to get laser removal and she will rip the piercing out.
She also told me she can control everything i do while im still living under her roof.

I love her and dont mean to whinge but I feel i should have more freedom seeing as I am responnsible and will be classed as an adult.
Her treating me this way is making me really consider moving out as soon as I turn 18 because I cant deal with it anymore.

Ive talked to her about it and she wont even listen to anything I try and say she just yells and says Im being immature and need to grow up even when I am speaking respectfully to her :(

She also keeps saying that i need to prove myself first but I dont know how i can do that when I always obey her rules and she already trusts me

Is there anything I can do to change her mind or shall I just move out like Im considerig

I’d just move out, why stress with all that nonsense. She couldn’t force you to get laser surgery to remove a tattoo lol all you would have to do is refuse and she’d have to physically force you which the clinic wouldn’t let her because at 18 it is 100% your decision.
She could rip the piercing out but im guessing she’s just saying it all to scare you so you won’t do it. She might kick you out because of it if she is that type but who knows. The sooner you move out the sooner you will have your freedom.

What is the best product to buy to remove a tattoo without having laser surgery?

Sunday, February 12th, 2012

I have a tattoo on my leg that I have had for a few years and I liked it when I got and still kinda do but my new husband doesnt like it and wants me to have it removed so for him I am willing to do that but we cant afford the laser surgery so I wanted to know the best product to buy that will fade it.

You know- they meant it when they said "its permanent". You can only get rid of a tattoo is by burning the skin SEVERELY or cutting it out.

If your husband is happy for you to sustain extreme scarring and third degree burns to go along with his wishes for your body, then fine.

Lazer surgery is just that- but safer and not third degree. If he is that desperate for the surgery, have him give up something dear and expensive, to pay for them (its multiple surgeries, not just one). He has to make a sacrafice if you have to. Otherwise you’re just letting him have his way, and wives shouldn’t just give in to their husbands in such an archaic way. Husbands DON’T have the final say. Its your body, you decide.

If it were me, I wouldn’t give in. You still like the tattoo- its YOUR body (none of this "my body is shared between us" crap. Thats bedroom business. You still have a right to decorate yourself as you wish).

Tattoo removal, not laserrr?

Tuesday, February 7th, 2012

Is there any other way to remove a tatto besides laser removal ? I recently got a tattoo i reallly do love the tattoo its looks extremely goood, but i feel i got it to big and in a awkward spot so i want to remove it and get it redone is that possible ?

The only other way is cutting it out..
It’ll hurt like crazy and it’ll be even worse to have another tattoo in that spot.
You shouldve looked at it before the artist tattooed it. You shouldve looked at the location and size.
Sorry, but cutting it out is the only option.
Unless you get something BIGGER / DARKER tattooed over it.

Is my mother being strict? and how can I convince her Im mature?

Friday, February 3rd, 2012

my curdew is currently 12 am and she refuses to lift it at all and says she can still keep it the same even when i turn 18 in two months. I am responsible and have never broken her trust and she does trust me. I rarely drink because she only allows me to drink sometimes. I said I want to get a tatoo that i can hide (like a small one on my hip) and a nose piercing and she said if I get one she is forcing me to get laser removal and she will rip the piercing out. She also told me she can control everything i do while im still living under her roof.

I love her and dont mean to whinge but I feel i should have more freedom seeing as I am responnsible and will be classed as an adult. Her treating me this way is making me really consider moving out as soon as I turn 18 because I cant deal with it anymore.

Ive talked to her about it and she wont even listen to anything I try and say she just yells and says Im being immature and need to grow up even when I am speaking respectfully to her :( She also keeps saying that i need to prove myself first but I dont know how i can do that when I always obey her rules and she already trusts me

Is there anything I can do to change her mind or shall I just move out like Im considerig

im 17 and will be 18 in two months and i mean ill get the tatoos and piercinig after i turn 18.

The 12 o clock curfew is pretty generous and the tattoo and piercing after 18 is up to You if you live in her house or not she can’t make you get laser removal and seriously.. rip it out shed go to jail.. but if your that upset about it get a place of your own when you turn 18 so you don’t have to worry about it