Is my mother being strict? and how can I convince her Im mature?
Friday, February 3rd, 2012my curdew is currently 12 am and she refuses to lift it at all and says she can still keep it the same even when i turn 18 in two months. I am responsible and have never broken her trust and she does trust me. I rarely drink because she only allows me to drink sometimes. I said I want to get a tatoo that i can hide (like a small one on my hip) and a nose piercing and she said if I get one she is forcing me to get laser removal and she will rip the piercing out. She also told me she can control everything i do while im still living under her roof.
I love her and dont mean to whinge but I feel i should have more freedom seeing as I am responnsible and will be classed as an adult. Her treating me this way is making me really consider moving out as soon as I turn 18 because I cant deal with it anymore.
Ive talked to her about it and she wont even listen to anything I try and say she just yells and says Im being immature and need to grow up even when I am speaking respectfully to her
She also keeps saying that i need to prove myself first but I dont know how i can do that when I always obey her rules and she already trusts me
Is there anything I can do to change her mind or shall I just move out like Im considerig
im 17 and will be 18 in two months and i mean ill get the tatoos and piercinig after i turn 18.
The 12 o clock curfew is pretty generous and the tattoo and piercing after 18 is up to You if you live in her house or not she can’t make you get laser removal and seriously.. rip it out shed go to jail.. but if your that upset about it get a place of your own when you turn 18 so you don’t have to worry about it