He tattoed my name and the date we got together, and now i feel like my feelings towards him are dead-
Now he wants ME to pay for removal off the tatto, which would be very expencive.
And im only 19, i dont have a job or anything.
I cant be with him any longer..
Please help?
what should i do?
He told me that he would pay someone to rape and kill me:S im so scared
Be strong and don’t allow yourself to be frightened by his threats and commands. He wants to punish you because you broke up with him.
Every person is responsibile for their own actions. HE was responsible for the tattoo being put on him – it is not your responsibility to pay to remove it. Every intelligent person knows when they tattoo a name on themselves that the relationship could break up, and its a risk they take. A good tattooist could alter the name into a design of some sort – it is a common enough problem brought to tattooists, but in any event that is not your problem., its his. He’s just got to be adult enough to sort out the problem that he himself created by his action.
Secondly, the threat to rape and kill – well its highly likely that these are just angry words thrown around to frighten you. You could file a report to the police, and tell him you have done so, but then put it out of your mind. He probalby had no intention at all of doing any such thing, and is even less likely when the police have him as a number one suspect to any future attack.
Tell him you have advised the police, then sever all lines of communication. He can’t frighten you if he can’t get hold of you to do so. You did the right thing to break off with him – don’t allow his fear tactics to prevent you from moving fully on.